About WN2D

Welcome to the enlightening realm of WhatNot2Date!

WN2D readers are out there either on the dating scene, or reminiscing about the frogs they kissed before the prince arrived, or living vicariously through the published exploits that fill these pages!

Whether we are single or in a relationship, the conclusions we come to about our partners are so very critical to the evolution of the human race. For example, we might tell ourselves our standards are “too high” and be tempted to settle for what’s there, simply because we can rationalise it. High standards are a wonderful, self-respecting logic that raise the bar for humanity. WN2D carries the torch for the “not settling revolution”.

In essence, WhatNot2Date is designed to get all of us back into questioning the dating and mating behaviours that - if left unchecked - encourage the world to become sloppy and uncouth, lingering in cuise control. When we wonder aloud: “Do people actually put up with this?” –  people do answer.

WhatNot2Date is where the people ask the questions and share the answers, self-medicating with laughter and a dose of reality.

When life hands you lemons … re-gift them!

Having started this project, I have received some great comments and many a funny conversation, which is exactly what I wanted and needed! Thanks everyone!

Some frequently asked questions (FAQs)

Q: Did you just break up with someone and are you okay?

A: No and yes. Yes and no. The point of WN2D is to use humour and wit to examine our standards. I think that higher self-respect will make for better relationships and I believe that the way to do that is to share our stories on WN2D so that we can all support each other and have a big laugh at all the ridiculousness that goes on.

Q: OMG I have some stories I could share!

A: Excellent! It’s not MY blog, it’s OURS. Comments are always welcome as are stories from readers.

Q: When I comment, it asks for my email.

A: That doesn’t show up for the world to see. Only me. It’s required so that if you write “poopoo kakah doodoo”, I can tell your mom.

Q: Love is blind – we can’t always recognise the what not to dates of the world.

A: No, but we can learn from our mistakes in the blindness. In fact, is love really blind? Or is it more like self-delusional?

Q: When’s your next blog?

A: Whenever the urge strikes me.

Q: I’m confused.

A: Me too. Hold me.

Q: What’s next?

A: If I knew the answer to that, I wouldn’t be blogging!

Q: Can you put it on facebook?

A: Done. WhatNot2Date is now on facebook and has over 100 friends, who are updated whenever there’s a new blog. You can also subscribe to the blog on the home page by entering your email address.

Enjoy!