I’d feel a lot better if I didn’t have to do all the dumping every time. Naturally, I was thrilled when Mr. T didn’t call me for 5 weeks while I was on holiday. There’s nothing worse than picturing someone pining after you when you’re in the middle of a blowjob.
Time to get home for Operation Get Dumped: the lazy way out of a relationship that is already over!
Step1: become critical
Little did I know what had happened to my flat while I was gone. To my horror, Mr. T gave it a total fucking makeover! Hippy-harem meets DIY: giant ferns, many bowls of fruit (with accompanying flies), weird-glowing-fibre-optics-thing on coffee table, and a warped fun-house mirror drilled into my new door. This was clearly not what “here’s my key, please collect the mail” looks like. I told him that it looked like shit and then threw everything out.
Step2: never go out anymore
He decided that for his birthday I was going to prepare dinner for him. He wanted a nice, traditional Canadian meal. I made Kraft Dinner. After all the effort I went to, Mr.T was half an hour late, took one look at the food and was suddenly not hungry. I made him eat it anyways. “It is an insult not to eat the traditional Canadian dish once you have looked at it. Very bad.” I pretended to cry. He gagged it down. I clapped. He did real crying.
Step3: forget how to use the phone
I was so busy being emotionally unavailable that I failed to notice he hadn’t called me all week. How dare he not call me when I’m the one who’s making the point of not calling him!
I celebrated being dumped by going to Canal Street and pulling. Then I received a text from Mr.T expecting my presence in exactly one hour. I replied in two hours saying that I’m rarely available on such short notice.
Step4: become very distant
The next day, I received an angry text from Mr. T letting me know that he was coming to my house immediately because “we need to talk”. Whether he arrived or not remains a great mystery as I was at the opposite end of the city that day. This time my reply instructed him to take a number like everyone else.
The following day, he called me. A billion times. Left angry messages. Then he was banging on my door. He stood outside in the rain and shouted “Please!” for a while. I’m not sure how long because I turned the volume up on X-Factor and made a snack. There’s no way I’m opening the door to that behaviour.
Mission = Fail
Later on, I called him and said that we didn’t “need to talk” because I got the message. I was dumped. Thanks for everything and good bye. Right? Wrong! He was shocked! Why would I think such a silly thing? I pointed out that when you don’t call a girl for a month, pimpify her flat, show up late for your own birthday meal, and then sleep with her and not call (again!) that means that you don’t particularly like her and you don’t want to be with her. He told me I was wrong. I told him to go back to his home planet.
I was prepared for the drunk-dialing and the texts, but I wasn’t ready for the grand finale: “Hi how is you? I think we should be friends never that to end. It been really great knowing you. How is work? Well, I hope 2 c U round. Oh, by a way, I forgot to ask … will you sign my immigration papers for me? Just say I is good boy.”
wtf?!